Ciao royals, today’s “lesson” is about Octobers significance
as Bullying Prevention Month.
In America, October is National Bullying Prevention Month.
STATISTICS:
In a 2011 study, it was found that 28% of U.S. students in
grades 6–12 experienced bullying, 70.6% of young people say they have seen
bullying in their schools, and 15% of high school students (grades 9–12) were
electronically bullied in the past year. (SOURCE- StopBullying.gov)
What is Bullying?
Bullying can be defined as repeated unwanted aggressive behavior
usually but not always involving a power imbalance. The important parts of this
definition are:
-REPEATED: Bullying is a PATTERN of behaviors. Bullying is a repeated behavior/series of behaviors.
-UNWANTED: The target of the bullying does not want the
behaviors of the bully to be occurring.
MYTHS ABOUT BULLYING:
MYTH: It is always physical.
FACT: Bullying can be repeated physical altercations, verbal
abuse, emotional abuse, or slander/gossip.
MYTH: It only happens to children.
FACT: Adults can also be bullied by other adults.
MYTH: It only happens in schools.
FACT: Bullying can happen anywhere, even in a workplace.
HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLYING:
-If you are a minor, tell a trusted adult, like a teacher,
school faculty member, parent, or guardian.
-If you are an adult, try to talk to the bully and tell them
that what they are doing is inappropriate and unprofessional.
-If you are an adult, and the situation has escalated beyond
calm conversation, bring the issue to someone like management, Human Resources,
or a supervisor.
-If the bullying is occurring in an online setting, block
the bully/report their hateful comments/posts.
-If you are a blogger/writer/content creator and you are receiving
anon hate, turn off the anon comment privileges on your site.
HOW TO HELP SOMEONE BEING BULLIED:
-Stand up for them.
-Be their friend, and support them through the bullying.
-Encourage them to tell someone who can help, like a teacher/supervisor.
-Don’t let others talk badly about them around you. Gossip
can be stopped by someone who tells the truth.
OTHER RESOURCES FOR THESE SITUATIONS:
How to Deal with a Subtle Bully:
Remember that you are amazing and wonderful just as you are.
Don’t let this world change your beautiful spirit.
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