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We all deal with negative, overwhelming and
worrisome thoughts, feelings and emotions. Lately I’ve found a method of self-expression
that has done wonders for my anxiety and depression! It’s called vent
journaling, and I wanted to share it with you guys as a coping skill to add to
your collection.
So, What is Vent Journaling?
Vent journaling is a specific type of
journaling that can be used to express negative or overwhelming thoughts and
emotions. It can be done through written words, drawing, painting, collage, or
any artistic medium. Today I hope to give you an introduction as to what vent journaling
is, and how you too can do it to provide an outlet for negative thoughts and
emotions, dealing with anxiety and depression, and any troubling events,
situations, or ideas.
For this post I will be using my own vent
journal as an example, so note that yours does not have to look exactly like
mine, use your creative freedom.
Setting up Your Vent Journal :
The first thing of course is to find a
notebook or sketchbook to be your vent journal. Depending on the style of vent journaling you
want to use may dictate the kind of journal you need, so if you are going to
have a more writing heavy journal you may want a spiral bound lined notebook or
composition book, however if you’re going to do more art in yours you may want
a sketchbook instead. Note: When choosing a sketchbook it's important to keep
in mind the type of paper it contains, if you’re going to be doing more work
with painting and markers you might want to choose thicker paper that won’t
bleed onto the other pages.
Personally, I use a 13X19 Centimeter spiral bound
sketchbook. You should of course choose a size that will best work for your
needs and personal preference.
Step One - Decorate it! Use collage, painting,
drawing, or any combination to decorate the cover of your vent journal. Make it
yours, make it visually appealing to you, it doesn't have to look traditionally
“good” as long as you are happy with it.
For mine I did a collage of cut out images and
colors, and a small drawing of a skull I did myself. I used rubber cement to
glue down the pieces as smoothly as possible and then covered them with a coat
of Mod Podge to seal and protect it from tearing.
Step Two - Make an Instructions page. You can
still have a vent journal without this page but I find it extremely beneficial
and highly recommend making one. Basically, this is just a page at the front of
your journal where you write to yourself and lay out the “rules” of the journal
as well as self care for after use. You can put a header that just serves as a
reminder as to the purpose this journal serves, and layout guidelines and rules
that work for you. For example, two of the rules I have in my own journal and
highly recommend you include in yours as well is, “Nothing in here is required
to look pretty or be perfect. Remind yourself of this each time you use this
journal.” and “Be honest with yourself, no emotion is invalid, and do not
destroy or tear out anything you make/put in here, it doesn’t have to be
perfect, you made it for a reason.”
After your list of guidelines, include a
section with self-care after use tips and advice to follow once you’re done
working in the journal. For example, ask yourself why you are feeling that way,
what could be causing it, and is there any action you can take to help it?
Remind yourself to take a step back and breath, go on a walk, take a bath, nap,
something to get away from the negative thoughts for a bit.
Here is my instructions page for reference,
though feel free to remove or add rules, tips, etc…
Step Three - Start Journaling! You don’t necessarily
have to be struggling to use this journal, though that is definitely when you
should use it most as a coping skill and outlet, but you can also use it to
help you relax, get thoughts out, or experiment artistically. You can use any
materials, pencils, pens, colored markers, water color paint, collage, or brush
pens. Also, you don’t have to use the same materials or same style throughout
the whole thing, you can change it from page to page depending on your needs.
My journal is primarily art pieces, but I also sometimes like to switch it up
and use just written word, or a combination of words and drawing. You can work
off prompts or present ideas but I find it best to just let it flow naturally
based on how your feeling at the time.
Below
are some examples of pages from my journal:
(images
Note: This one is intentionally blurred to keep what's written private, but I
wanted to show an example of combining art and written words)
What style of Journaling to Use When -
This is up to you, how you express yourself,
what methods of journaling you prefer, and what emotions you struggle with, but
I can give you some advice and examples.
-
Metaphor : using words or images
as metaphors for what you’re feeling can be a way to express them but not
directly dwelling on them and a way to get creative
-
Collage : this is also a way to
express yourself without being super direct, you can cut out images and words
from magazines or catalogues that appeal to you and the emotions your feeling.
-
Writing and Art : I find drawing
something then writing over top of it is a great way to express your thoughts
and feelings but writing it over a drawn image obscures the words and I find
that really nice to make it kind of abstract and about just getting your
emotions out and not focusing on legibility or ability to read it later.
In Conclusion
In Conclusion - To wrap things up, when
working in your vent journal remind yourself that you and your emotions are
valid, everything you make in your journal is valid, it doesn’t have to be
perfect or pretty or make sense, just like your thoughts and feelings. Be
honest with yourself, and be kind to yourself above all.
That's all I have today, feel free to include
your thoughts, experiences and pictures of vent journaling in the comments
below! Stay tuned for more posts like this in the future! Stay Awesome!
~Nightsong
7 Comments
This was pretty informative and interesting to learn and I'll definitely make my own vent journal! I feel like this might be a better way of expressing my thoughts since I'm more emotional in a strong way.
ReplyDeleteI've used Nightsong's vent journal method and it's been super helpful to me, especially for those times in-between therapy appts! Thanks for reading!
DeleteThank you this helps a lot!
ReplyDeleteBut when does a vent book go too far?
And by that i mean, when does it go from just a burst of emotions you can’t explain, to behavior you take to your therapist?
If you can identify patterns of troubling feelings, thoughts, or behaviors by looking back on your journal, that is when I would most likely bring it to a therapist. However, this technique can also be used alongside therapy! Thanks for reading, I hope that helped answer your question!
DeleteThank you so much! this helps me a-lot ,i really need to get things out.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad this helps! I know it makes Nightsong very happy to know that their articles help people, and I will definitely pass the message along :)
DeleteThank you, i actually used a note-book as a diary
ReplyDeletebut now i will try the journal one because it can motivate writing things down
also because i tend to forget alot of things importants when i go to therapy:,)
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